boku
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Post by boku on Jan 17, 2016 11:13:17 GMT -5
See thread title
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Post by overusedname on Jan 17, 2016 16:45:14 GMT -5
Something I grew into. Watching porn and observing different relationship dynamics, ones seemed more appealing than the other.
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ghost
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Post by ghost on Jan 17, 2016 22:54:53 GMT -5
Very appealing to me; observed others and it almost always seemed like guys had to do everything in this current society. I like being different, and I enjoy it when others are different and show their true colors
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Post by Anonymus on Jan 22, 2016 13:33:21 GMT -5
For me it was mainly a matter of discovering the threads and realizing "Oh, that's what it's called!". Such as it's been with most of my fetishes.
/gfd/ has helped me quite a bit, actually. When my SAD kicks in, or I just generally feel like shit, I just imagine there's a pretty girl there pinning me down and telling me it'll be alright.
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Post by dewpoint on Jan 23, 2016 15:36:51 GMT -5
Despite all of my supposed shyness, I've always preferred being in a more dominant position. I guess that slipped into my relationship goals as well, but for a while all of the femdom information and media I could find out about was too hardcore for me. Then I found the thread and felt really relieved that there was a term and community for what I was into already.
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6gu
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Post by 6gu on Jan 23, 2016 19:21:49 GMT -5
Throughout life I've always had various kinks I guess. I remember when I first started getting sexually aroused and watching porn, I quickly discovered that I found a lot of the more unusual stuff more arousing. So I've sort of bounced around from watching and reading material involving various kinks for several years, and in the last year or two I really got into male domination after some of my other kinks started turning me on less, probably since I'm just a pretty submissive person in general (shy, like taking orders from other people, I hate being in charge, etc.). However, I don't like the harsh tones or hatefulness or pain that seems to be involved in a lot of male domination stuff sometimes. Often I find it sort of sexually arousing (especially when the dom insults the guy, or forces him to do something embarrassing), but I don't think I'd actually want to experience that in real life. I don't know what it was or why, but a few weeks ago I decided to search "gentle female-on-male domination," or something, and found this. It resonated with me on a level that I had never felt before, even with other kinks. My other kinks have always been things that I've found arousing, but I question if I'd want to experience them in real life. GFD and role reversal is, without a doubt, absolutely what I want from a relationship more than anything else.
Though I guess I've always sort of liked GFD material on some level, but I had never read about it specifically or given it a name. I've always been turned on by mother/son incest stuff, often because it has elements of GFD. And I've read erotica that had gentle femdom elements.
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Dom
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Post by Dom on Jan 23, 2016 20:15:28 GMT -5
I guess for me it was just a matter of personality. I've always been a pretty relaxed guy so when it comes to making decisions I'm not very reliable. Having someone tell me what to do in a way that comes across as loving and for my own good just appeals to me I guess. Elements of this have been all over the place though. The earliest I can think of would be the Kanker Sisters from Ed, Edd, and Eddy if anyone watched that show. Not a big emphasis on gentle but it introduced a much younger me to the idea. Flash forward several years later I found the threads and realized hey this is kind of what I want. So yeah I guess pretty much that.
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Post by noizyshark on Jan 24, 2016 11:12:18 GMT -5
I've always been shy/afraid of bothering people. Approaching women always felt like a sleazy thing since I've heard a lot of stories of jerks harassing women. I used to be afraid I'd never be able to approach someone without making them feel that way. So in a certain way role reversal is really the only way I feel comfortable about relationships. And being the relatively timid, unmasculine boy I was, I always thought girls that were dominant were really hot. But when I discovered femdom, some of it felt too intense, or too abstract. Gfd/rr just feels more applicable to my actual lifestyle.
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Post by murasakishikibu on Jan 24, 2016 22:53:30 GMT -5
I was the youngest in the family, so I was always the one that was babied. As a kid I had a crush on John Lennon, despite the fact that I am not attracted to male bodies. I guess that could indicate a tendency towards masculine personalities. I was jealous of girls for being able to wear dresses, and was afraid of the barber because I wanted to have long hair. When I think of what I am attracted to, I think more in terms of personality than body type. My interest in gfd started from gender-bender manga, and from there I found regular Femdom porn. I never liked it because I like the idea of sex being fun and playful, and I still can't understand the idea of forced feminization or just the exaggerated nature of the domination. I found /gfd/ while browsing /r9k/ to see if it was as bad as /lit/ made it out to be.
tldr, I don't really know, but I relate to Kairo I guess
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Post by hearn on Jan 30, 2016 17:36:00 GMT -5
I've always fantasised about role reversal and have never really fitted perfectly into male gender roles. I don't like mainstream F/m femdom for how harsh it is and also have noticed differences between mainstream F/m femdom and other types of dom/sub (M/f, M/m and F/f), in that rather than the sub being cared about and valued they are in many cases treated like dirt. One thing I like doing is reading erotic fanfiction and changing the genders of the characters in my head. Anyway, one day I was on either /d/ or /r9k/ and I stumbled upon the /rr/ and /gfd/ thread and was instantly interested.
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Post by delightfullydomme on Jan 31, 2016 0:22:46 GMT -5
Well I got into femdom first, but I knew most femdom was too rough for me, so when I saw a /gfd/ thread on /d/, everything kinda clicked. However, when I first started discovering my sexual and romantic identity, I wasn't really into femdom. Or, I suppose, I didn't really know it was an option. I honestly think a lot of me being into rr and gfd comes from an inherent distrust of men. Honestly, I don't really know where that came from. My relationship with my dad was fine, and I was never abused. But ever since I learned what "rape" was, it's been a pretty prevalent fear of mine. Maybe because I watched too many Law & Order: SVU growing up. So in a way, maybe femdom is a way for me to be comfortable and in control in a sexual/romantic relationship. Or maybe I just like it when I make boys blush. tl;dr i have trust issues and like submissive boys.
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sara
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Post by sara on Jan 31, 2016 6:42:24 GMT -5
great god, i knew UK version was better.
To be honest, I've been always that way, I just didn't know how it was called. Also hardcore-dom-thing is not really for me, cause I like cuddling, kissing, teasing more than straight up sex.
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Post by weuvos36 on Jan 31, 2016 19:06:41 GMT -5
I was the youngest in the family, so I was always the one that was babied. As a kid I had a crush on John Lennon, despite the fact that I am not attracted to male bodies. I guess that could indicate a tendency towards masculine personalities. I was jealous of girls for being able to wear dresses, and was afraid of the barber because I wanted to have long hair. When I think of what I am attracted to, I think more in terms of personality than body type. My interest in gfd started from gender-bender manga, and from there I found regular Femdom porn. I never liked it because I like the idea of sex being fun and playful, and I still can't understand the idea of forced feminization or just the exaggerated nature of the domination. I found /gfd/ while browsing /r9k/ to see if it was as bad as /lit/ made it out to be. tldr, I don't really know, but I relate to Kairo I guess Like he said, I was the youngest in my family and babied and coddled a lot. But I also did like a lot of other things before this. I had a really hard yandere fetish, and still do, before I found /gfd/ and loved when the girl was the aggressor, found /yg/ on /r9k/ and inevitably found /gfd/, which I immediately dismissed as faggotry and people who thought their silly fantasy could be fulfilled irl, I think the same thing about /yg/, but at least they posted stuff relevant to my interests. After showing my friend /d/ when I was a newfag to laugh at dicktits and the likes, I saw /gfd/ again and wanted to show him how pathetic I thought you guys were for a cheap laugh and I ended up getting a hard on and now my friend makes fun of me for it. But now I'm also a silly faggot who hopes his fetish can be fulfilled irl.
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pyrr
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Post by pyrr on Feb 2, 2016 0:13:10 GMT -5
Unfortunate childhood events and bad relationships started it off mostly. Wanting to be wanted, be the little spoon and make someone happy, get roughed about a bit - lovingly. Family was largely fine, ignoring some recent events that led to being disowned, but it largely pushed me towards being a quiet, homekeeping sort, since my dad was like that, and that's really been my only dream - to become a househusband, or close to it.
I only sorta realised that after I started seeing gfd threads on /r9k/, which I'd come on to for other story threads, and had something concrete to call it all.
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Post by Myax on Feb 2, 2016 1:00:46 GMT -5
I blame my catholic upbringing for making me naive and innocent for most of my childhood, and I blame /d/ for crushing that innocence. /d/ was pretty much my primary source of porn for a while after I stumbled into it, which led me to a lot of kinks. My submissiveness probably comes from overbearing, aggressive parents. I just sort of learned to do what I was told, and that led to an interest in femdom. After a bit of time on /d/ I stumbled into the /gfd/ thread, and found it to be a pretty comfy and more realistic version of femdom. Not only that, but it pretty much encompassed all of the traits I find attractive in a partner.
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