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Post by SB on Jan 12, 2016 19:28:26 GMT -5
I think this would be a good place to have discussions on what subs and doms think are the best bodytypes for their respective partners. I'd bet there's a nice confidence booster in knowing that some girls like to domme fairly average guys, or that not all subs are expecting you to be a model.
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Post by overusedname on Jan 12, 2016 19:42:42 GMT -5
In a perfect world, about as tall as me, medium length, dark hair, nice jawbone, a face that doesn't make me want to cry in a corner, and a healthy body. Doesn't need to be toned, just not fat.
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Post by Dom on Jan 12, 2016 20:12:33 GMT -5
I think the best dom is the one that's interested in you, but as far as physical stuff goes I like brown hair and glasses.
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Post by alien anon on Jan 12, 2016 22:45:25 GMT -5
Ideally, i'd like my sub to be beefy and tall, and look traditionally "manly." it's just so cute when a guy like that is actually more submissive and "girly." But, of course, personality is most important. As long as the person isn't super fat, I'm not picky.
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Post by Dom on Jan 12, 2016 23:05:48 GMT -5
So I have a question guys. Which gender you think has more standards? I don't mean this negatively I'm just curious.
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Post by 6gu on Jan 12, 2016 23:47:14 GMT -5
Like others have echoed in this topic, body type doesn't matter anywhere near as much as personality. I'm attracted to women of many heights and weights (including obese women, though I do admittedly have an eventual "limit," there).
Ideally, I think I'd prefer a woman who is tall but not abnormally so. So taller than 5'9", but not much taller than six feet. I also think I'd be attracted to a woman who is physically fit, even though I'm not, so she can talk about how she can "protect," me. But again, this is just an unimportant ideal mostly fueled by fantasies I have that doms definitely do not have to live up to for me to find them attractive. Minor stuff like race, hair color, glasses, etc. I really don't care about at all in the least, at least not in general.
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Post by Dom on Jan 13, 2016 0:48:21 GMT -5
Definitely well thought out response I appreciate the response from a woman. (I mean that there aren't many on here yet). Thanks for the responses guys.
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Post by 6gu on Jan 13, 2016 0:59:49 GMT -5
So I have a question guys. Which gender you think has more standards? I don't mean this negatively I'm just curious. I think that women have higher standards, but this is mostly because of the way gender roles are (i.e. men are the pursuers so women have to be more selective with men who pursue them, women are taught to care more about appearances through society and the media). I also think that even though women have higher standards than men, the difference isn't that high and most men have higher standards and are shallower than they'd probably be willing to admit, and most would be just as selective based solely on appearances as many women if they weren't the pursuers.
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Post by alien anon on Jan 13, 2016 1:32:58 GMT -5
I think guys will say girls have higher standards, and girls will say guys have higher standards. In high school, I always saw these not-so-great looking guys with pretty attractive girls. But I'm sure guys will share anecdotes saying otherwise.
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Post by SB on Jan 13, 2016 2:40:54 GMT -5
So I have a question guys. Which gender you think has more standards? I don't mean this negatively I'm just curious. It really does depend on where you live in my experience. If you live somewhere with mixed schools and parks and stuff, there's usually not a great deal of pickiness. If you live somewhere where there's very little to do and it's just houses and flats everywhere then standards tend to be higher for both men and women, but generally women in particular.
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Post by Anonymous on Jan 13, 2016 7:36:30 GMT -5
I disagree with all of you. It's nice to appear accepting and whatnot, but I will openly admit to having high standards because I'm not willing to accept less than the best for myself and I feel it's important to value myself highly by seeking someone up to my standards.
On the other hand, physical appearance is not something worth having high standards over because it's both circumstantial and largely moot, at least in my age bracket. There's a certain "threshold of attractiveness," I think, past which people within the same race all look about equally appealing. My brain cannot perceive much of a difference in attractiveness between some heavily photo-edited model and (almost) any given student of the same race and gender walking around a college campus with bedhead. Outfits and hair can be easily changed. Body shape and structure can be changed as well, be it through diet and exercise or surgery, although changes like these are something most people admittedly don't go through.
It is absolutely imperative that we all get what we want when it comes to everything else, though. Settling or compromising is a sign that we have given up on ourselves, and that's not something I'm willing to do. I want someone who will work out with me, and either I'm going to get one or have no one. I want someone I can hold a conversation on my level with, and I'll either have one or have no one. And so on.
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Post by dewpoint on Jan 13, 2016 9:59:52 GMT -5
I don't care about height, especially since I'm super short and any sub would be taller than me anyways. Body-wise, I like anything as long as they're not super fat. But if we're talking about absolute ideal I'd have to say I'm partial towards bara lite.
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Post by SB on Jan 13, 2016 12:03:07 GMT -5
I don't care about height, especially since I'm super short and any sub would be taller than me anyways. Body-wise, I like anything as long as they're not super fat. But if we're talking about absolute ideal I'd have to say I'm partial towards bara lite. >Bara lite Continue...
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Post by woo on Jan 14, 2016 9:00:51 GMT -5
I don't care about height, especially since I'm super short and any sub would be taller than me anyways. Body-wise, I like anything as long as they're not super fat. But if we're talking about absolute ideal I'd have to say I'm partial towards bara lite. I read "Bara lite" as "Bara life", and for a second i was thinking you'd write a rap song about the struggle
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Post by NoizyShark on Jan 15, 2016 19:47:05 GMT -5
I'm really into height differences. Though, at 5'10" anyone within 2/3 inches either way feels tall. But I also like really short girls with the idea that they're good at taking on people bigger than them. I'm also into chubby girls with larger boobs, cause it's fun when you hug someone to automatically have your head close to their cleavage, and stuff. But obviously I care more about personality. They'll tease me but never cross the line into making me feel crappy about myself, and are super enthusiastic about stuff, and give me head pats and stuff.
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